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Anthony Lingle | My Story

Anthony Lingle – My Story 

BRANDY L. OWEN
The Sacramento Shield
mrsbrandyowen@gmail.com

I met a girl named Kari.  We fell in love.  As with most couples, we spent every waking moment together.  In a very short time, we found out she was pregnant.  I was very happy and asked her to marry me.  She said yes, and everything was great. I accompanied her to every doctor’s appointment and supported her every way I could.  We knew that as soon as Kari’s dad found out she was pregnant, he would kick her out of his house.  As a result, I moved from my one bedroom apartment to a two bedroom to accommodate the growing family.  She moved in, and everything was still great.

Then things were not so great.  When Kari was just over 6 months pregnant, I caught her drinking on a few occasions.  Every time I inquired about the alcohol, she got very mad and left.  When I became overwhelmed with concern, I showed up at the next doctor’s appointment, unannounced.  I discussed this concern with the doctor, thinking prenatal exposure to tobacco and alcohol could harm our growing baby.  My intentions were good, and I hoped the doctor would take necessary measures by discussing the importance of a “clean and sober” pregnancy with Kari and perhaps contact DHS, CPS, or similar organizations if the neglect continued.  However, my efforts were either dismissed or not enforced, as the drinking continued.  When Kari found out I spoke to the doctor, she became angry again, screaming for me to go away and leave her alone.  I knew it would be best if I did as she asked.

Soon after, I filed for joint custody and a paternal test through the Sacramento Court System.  In return, Kari filed a restraining order against me for being overly controlling.   This claim was based on her false account of my previous actions, of me pleading with Kari and the doctor for things to change, for the neglect to cease.  In addition, she fashioned lies on the restraining order in attempt to have me arrested and removed from my obstructing position.  Rightfully, the restraining order was dismissed when the judge found her claim untrue.  The judge also required that we return sometime after the child’s birth for case revision and a paternal test, upon my request.

On January 1, 2010, my daughter Hailey was born.  Responsibility for her care was immediately given to the prospective adoptive parents at birth.  Unfortunately, Hailey’s birth was kept secret from me, despite the court’s word that I would be informed.  I found out on my own by calling the hospital every day.  And due to privacy laws, I was not allowed much information.  At my next court visit, I was notified that the case was transferred to Placer County, the location of the adoption.  The paternal test results were revealed at the next court date, which showed 96.9% probability of my paternity.  It was also at this court date that Kari’s lawyer informed me of her intent of adoption.  I was unaware she could commit such a selfish act without my consent.

I obtained an attorney to fight the adoption, and it was during the first trial hearing that the truth was revealed.  To my dismay, the continued alcohol and tobacco use during pregnancy showed their effects in multiple ways.  I was horrified when I saw the photos of Hailey from birth, as she was scratched and bruised from head to toe.  Some battle wounds from birth are not uncommon, but the extent of her injuries seemed beyond normal, and I suspect were due to chemical dependency and withdrawal.  She was in the hospital on a respirator for about nine days after birth to allow her undeveloped lungs to reach full potential.  Hailey was also born with “Intrauterine Retardation,” a condition that can be caused by long-term exposure to alcohol and nicotine during pregnancy.  This caused Hailey to be born with a low birth weight, less than six pounds at full gestation.  My prior efforts to prevent fetal harm were apparently useless.

Despite having spent $75,00 ($150,000 as of Dec. 2011) towards the attorney fees, I lost my counsel when more money was required.  A court-appointed attorney resumed fighting on my behalf.  During the trial, the judge called me unfit as a parent for a few reasons; one being that I was attempting parenthood solo, where the adoptive parents could provide twice the support and care.  In addition, the judge was concerned about my rocky past.  I had a drug problem many years ago, but have since completed the Salvation Army’s 12 month live-in program, volunteered an additional 12 months there, and completed an eight-month EMT course through the Charles Jones Skill Center.  I have remained clean for nearly 7 years.  All this happened long before I met Hailey’s mother.

During these adoption hearings, the prospective adoptive parents revealed they were filing for divorce.  The judge then put a stay on the case decision until he could investigate and gather details.  The resulting deposition exposed another truth, that the prospective adoptive mother had been cheating on the husband with six other people since the court hearings began, four men and two women. One of these men had been the best man at their wedding.  She also had a medical marijuana card for anxiety, which is still current today. I surmise this is just a cover to obtain a “legal” front for previously illegal drug use.  My concern is that she won’t give 100% to Hailey’s care while under the influence or may not be alert in emergency situations.  And what affect would this have on Hailey?  She may grow up thinking this behavior is acceptable.  Surprisingly, the adoptive mother filed for sole adoptive custody to raise Hailey as a single parent.  Back when the adoptive parents were together, my request for adoption was rejected for this very reason.  And yet the prospective adoptive mother was succeeding where my argument failed.

I was given visitation with my daughter when she was five months old.  I saw her every Tuesday and Thursday for two hours each day, and I did not miss a single one. May 1st of this year was the day of reckoning, when the judge made his decision.  My court-appointed attorney’s opinion of my case was bleak; he didn’t think I stood a chance.  He said if I had 20 years clean, perhaps, but after only 6.5 years, the chances were slim-to-none.  It was a classic case of “A parent with a scarred history” versus “An adoptive parent with no record”.  This case was very unique due to the unexpected divorce during the adoption case.  I prayed every day not to lose my daughter.  I did not believe the courts possessed any reason to remove my influence from Hailey’s life.  I wanted to be in her life, to raise her, since I first learned of her conception.  She is my daughter, I Love her with all my heart.  When I first laid eyes on her at five months, I fell in love. She became my heart, she was my daughter.  I never turned my back on her.  I believed I had a right to raise my daughter, believed she deserved me as a father, but at that point I did not know what to expect of the outcome.  The courts were attempting to revoke my rights as Hailey’s father, saying I was unfit, despite my “Kelsey S Father” status that proved I was responsible, reliable, and supportive.  True, I had been addicted to drugs for 12 years, ensued much trouble during this time, and have been punished greatly as a result.  But I have been clean for almost 7 years, learned how to live sober, improved my way of life, and tried my hardest to ensure only the best for my future.

As of May 2nd, 2011, the court terminated my parental right to be Hailey’s father, and in doing so, deprived Hailey’s life of her fatherly experiences.  I fear I have lost my daughter completely, that the adoptive parent might move away and never tell Hailey about me, about my love for her, my devotion to her, and my valiant fight for her.  I am currently in the process of appealing the court’s decision in hopes I can gain my daughter back and provide her with a better life.  I have been keeping everything pertaining to Hailey and the custody case in a safe box.  If I do not win the appeal, my only wish is that one day Hailey will ask where she came from and will receive the truth.  I hope she will look me up, come find me, and I will pull out the box.  I will share it with her and share my wonderful memories.  I will share my noble fight and tell her I never wanted to give her away, that I have always loved her.

I am sharing my story with you today because it may be the only way to return Hailey where she belongs – in my arms – and to be involved in every part of her life, not just to be her weekend father.  I feel like the judge’s decision was unfair, a violation of constitutional rights, and I hope that those who believe me could help make that difference.  As you read this, please pray for us.

Sincerely,
Anthony Lingle, Hailey’s loving and devoted father

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The Stolen Show | Anthony Lingle’s Daughter Sold for $82,000 | Parts 1-4

The Stolen Show did an interview with Anthony Lingle and his case about how his daughter was sold for $82,000:


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Anthony Lingle | The Family Court System Has Become the New Regime

There is no system ever devised by mankind that is guaranteed to rip husband and wife or father, mother and child apart so bitterly then our present Family Court System” – Judge Brian Lindsay Retired Supreme Court Judge

Families are being torn apart by people in positions of power – judges, therapists, counselors, attorneys. The family court system and our system of justice have become the new regime. If you don’t agree with them, if you stand up for your rights, or voice your displeasure in the system you are crushed. As much as I hate to say it the alienators think that they are in control but really they are just puppets in the hands of power hungry people who want to play God in the lives of the people. Parental Alienation is one of the tools they use to destroy families and gain control of our children. It is happening everyday in every civilized country around the globe and the majority of people are sitting back and apathetically letting it happen.

I have been pondering what has been happening in the courts lately. I am struck by the overall apathy of people until it directly affects their lives. Apathy is the very thing that destroys a nation. When we become apathetic we let down our guard and allow the wolves to enter the sheep’s fold. These wolves are cleverly disguised as sheep but no matter what they look like on the outside they are wolves who seek to devour every thing in site. I know it sounds a little dramatic and a little conspiracy theory but the reality is that we have let the wolves in.

Anthony Lingle
Sacramento, California
SaveHailey.com 

This Christmas Without You, Hailey

Anthony Lingle is the father whose own daughter was sold for an $82,000 adoption by his ex-fiancee with no warning or discussion.


By Anthony Lingle
Hailey’s Loving Father
THE NIGHTS ARE GETTING LONGER
THE SUN IS BARELY HERE
THE WEATHER IS COLD AND FROSTY
SO CHRISTMAS MUST BE NEAR
TWINKLING LIGHTS WILL START APPEARING
HOLLY AND TINSEL HERE AND THERE
SANTA WISH LIST WILL BE WRITTEN
BY EXCITED CHILDREN EVERYWHERE
BUT FOR ME THERE WILL BE NO TURKEY
OR MONEY TO BUY GIFTS DECORATIONS WILL
STAY PACKED AWAY NO MISTLETOE TO BE KISSED UNDER
FOR ME THIS CHRISTMAS DAY.
NO CHRISTMAS MORNING SMILES
AS WE WAKE TO GREET THE MORN’
NO SPECIAL GIFTS FOR EACH OTHER
WITH FANCY WRAPPINGS TO BE TORN
MY DAY WILL BE FILLED WITH MEMORIES
WITH SADNESS AND WITH TEARS
WITH REMEMBERING HAPPY CHRISTMAS’S
SPENT TOGETHER IN PREVIOUS YEAR
THIS YEAR WILL BE THE FRIST CHRISTMAS
I HAVE TO SPEND ALONE WITHOUT YOU
SO IT WILL NOT BE HAPPY AND JOLLY
JUST VERY EMPTY ,SAD AND BLUE
BUT DEEP DOWN I KNOW YOU’LL BE WITH ME
I WILL FEEL YOUR PRESENCE WHEN I AM BLUE
I WILL SMILE WHEN I REMEMBER SOME SILLY TIME WITH YOU
AND TWINKLING EYES THAT WERE UNIQUELY YOU
SO I AM NOT LOOKING FORWARD TO THIS CHRISTMAS
I KNOW I WILL BE FEELING OH SO BLUE
BUT I KNOW IT IS SOMETHING I HAVE TO LIVE THROUGH
THIS VERY FIRST CHRISTMAS WITHOUT YOU HAILEY
DADDY WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU.

www.SaveHailey.com

Freedom of the Press Group LLC Launches The Sacramento Shield

The Sacramento Shield is the third Freedom of the Press Group LLC venture in California after sister Web sites, The Placer County Observer and The Amador Arrow. The strategy is to shine a light on a corrupt, wicked and evil judicial branch of government, as well as provide an outlet and forum for victims of governmental abuse to voice their concerns and tell the world their stories. Publisher Joey G. Dauben received a vision to launch The Sacramento Shield in his car on Nov. 29, 2011.

“I was driving along, listening to Christian band Red, and thinking about my friend Anthony Lingle, and figuring out a way to better help him get his story out,” said Dauben, 30. “Yahweh then told me, ‘Start a blog in Sacramento. Call it The Shield.’ And that is quite literally how this blog came about.”

Dubbed an “Investigative Protection Blog,” the meaning behind that is as a priority, all of the Freedom of the Press Group LLC Blogs and Newspapers (there are more than 50 now) will devote the mission of each outlet to investigating political corruption in those particular areas, cities, counties, regions or states. And then, the FOTP Group outlets will serve as a “protection mechanism” to literally Shield sources, children, parents, mothers, fathers, individuals and people from all walks of life from their government, from retaliation and from evil deeds and wicked schemes. This spiritual war needs courageous individuals to come forward and fight, but we cannot think for one second that our enemies will not retaliation or react towards us in harassing, mental, or even physical ways.

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